A child born at home is received with a lot of love and joy. Everyone in the house wants to hold and please the baby. After some years, the toddle is all grown up and ready to start schooling and soon it wants to make decisions on its own. Time moves fast and in no time, once a small helpless kid want to go out and live on their own. This is a review of memoirs about leaving home where young people take upon themselves to seek freedom. There are things that majority of the young adolescents miss from their family after they have left.

Most young people yearning to leave home have no idea what they want to do when they get out to the real world. But some of the reasons that make these adolescents choose leaving may originate from excessively strict parents or injurious family. It is apparent that concentrated restricting adolescents provoke them to rebel.

Some years back, many people left their homes as a sign of independence to live in the world without depending on their parents. The experiences they encounter differ from one individual to the other as a result some end up with positive outcomes while others end up in bad incidents. This often depend on the individual background which they acquired from home and how they left.

Different individuals have varied reasons for leaving their homes, which include peer pressure and family factors. Notably, not all the people who decide to seek freedom away from their parents do so because of negative reasons. There are some who want to be on their own because they have come of age and are ready to relieve the burden of depending on their guardians. Some go out for the purpose of education and they never return home because they immediately get employment.

One of the most common things that the people leaving their homes miss is the care and love from their immediate relatives. This is an element that majority of young adolescents ignore while at home because they are regularly exposed to it. Therefore, the moment it is short in supply, the individuals feels its importance. Being alone also means taking responsibility without standing up for help from anyone. Pay bills, buy food, furnish your house and search for employment.

The majority of those who leave their home realize what they decided when their peer pressure and friends starts fading away. They are left to take care of themselves and to start taking responsibility to plan and manage their lives. The skills that one acquired from their parents would play a significant role to help them survive in the outside world.

As most memoirs indicate, those who leave their homes because of peer pressure and other negative reasons often suffer the most. However, those who are assisted to establish their new lives by their parents and go because of positive circumstances always excel. How ones decide to take freedom determines what they experience in the real world.

Leaving home is a difficult thing for both the parents and children. Having lived together watched them grow and took care of them, guardian confidence that their child will take care away from their eyes is not sufficient. Therefore gaining independence should not be instant or by force but it should be gradual and well informed.